I have two best friends, one male and one female.
My female best friend doesn’t know she’s my best friend… we don’t even call each other best friends, but it there is someone who knows so much about me, and could blackmail me (if not because she has a heart of gold), it would be her…
My best friends annoy me sometimes… they want me to do things that are inconvenient for me… they say things that annoy me, or hurt my feelings, or make me angry…
There were times I wanted to end my relationship with both of my best friends. I felt the female one was selfish and insensitive (when in truth I was also quite selfish), and I felt my male best friend was being too annoying… I’m glad I didn’t end the relationships though…
See what I’ve been realizing lately is that most times when we have a disagreement it is more about miscommunication and misunderstanding. We misinterpret something that was said or done, because the devil tells us that they did it on purpose, just to hurt you… and you believe him…
Lately I’ve been trying to remind myself that my friends are really on my side, and really want the best for me. So when we argue, I shouldn’t let the devil tell me lies about why they said or did whatever they did, I should just ask them… because when it’s all said and done, the only one that benefits from disunity, disharmony and discord is the accuser, the devil… so why would I do something to benefit him?
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