Make the Brain dominate the Blood – Nelson Mandela 1918-2013

It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye to a legend – Nelson Mandela. My prayer is that his legacy will continue with you… with me… May you find the courage and the strength to always make your brain dominate your blood   Need some help dealing with loneliness, please click here Need some help …

Choosing the right one – I got 99 problems but money ain't one

People often talk about meeting the right one, finding the right one, how do you know he’s the right one etc…. the truth is, there is no “right one” out there just waiting for you so they can have a perfect relationship with you – with no issues. There are lots of bad ones, and …

How to get full this thanksgiving – 2013

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO EVERYONE!!! During this season take the time out to remember everything you’re thankful for. The little things… the big things… the sunrise… the great health… the great family… the great job… the great friends… whatever it is… just remember to be thankful during this thanksgiving season. Have you shared my books with …

Love is when he says "what do you have in mind"

Whenever I ask my husband what his plans are for the day, the night, the weekend, the week, etc, his answers range from saving innocent lives from a burning building, feeding starving kids in Africa or eliminating worldwide poverty to saving a scared cat from a tree — yeah y’all I married superman… But what …

How having natural hair boosted my self confidence

After my wedding hair was shared on Bella Naija, I realized that people were still arguing about why having a relaxer in your hair was better, so I decided to share how this decision to go natural or get a perm is more than just convenience… it’s much deeper than that… Many of you know …

If my hair was long like yours I would do all sorts of things

Ever since I went natural (AKA no relaxers in my hair), I have been getting all sorts of attention. Sometimes the attention is good – comments like “wow! I love your hair,” other times the attention is not so good – questions like “why is your hair so rough?” – AKA “why is your natural …