Finding the one (5): It's okay if he doesn't love God

Last week we talked about the misconception that it’s necessary to “test-drive” you future mate. This week we will be talking about whether it is important for your future spouse to love God. When I was in college, one of the best guys I dated was an atheist. He was one of the most respectful, …

Finding the one (3): I won't be lonely again

Last week I talked about how a relationship will not fix your problems. This week I want to talk about another common misconception. I’m just going to be blunt and say that people (AKA human beings) are not toys, they were not placed on the earth to fix your problems or to amuse you (or …

Finding the one (2): Please fix my problems

Last week I talked about relationships, and how we all need to find our purpose. This week I’m going to talk about one of the biggest misconceptions that people have about relationships. Instead of going to God to ask him to fix our problems, we go to people. We expect to find this spectacular relationship …

Finding the one (1): Finding purpose

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about relationships and finding the “one” you want to spend the rest of your life with. I guess I’ve been thinking about it recently because I had been so busy living life that I hadn’t thought about it for so long. I remember I asked a friend one time …